words to remember ^_^

The actions of others are not under your control. Let them make their own choices.It's a wonderful feeling to share in the successes of loved ones and, conversely, it can be quite a trial to watch them go through troubled times. If a friend or partner is having a tough time of it, your urge to cheer them up or solve all their problems is admirable -- but your influence over their life is minimal. Respect their need for space and let them make their own decisions. As much as you'd like to help, there's no way you can. Just make sure you're there when they need you.